Paid for sex is a unique situation.  Two (hopefully) sober and consentual adults face each other with the understanding that they are going to have sex.  Where a weekend or longer, maybe even a day, has been booked, then some "getting to know you" niceties are in order.  But when the time bytes are in [...]

I never realised how hard it is to bring up the subject of sexual incompatibility with a loved one, until recently.  Before I realised that I could have pleasure in bed, and could actually orgasm as best as the next sexually active person, I knew nothing other than dismissable sex.  Then I got older and [...]